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Being The Newbie

Right when we finally reach the top, life always finds a way to bring us back down to the bottom. In 8th grade we were on top of the middle school food chain… and then we became freshmen in high school. We went from being seniors in high school to freshmen in college and finally we became seniors in college.

We spend the last weeks packing up our dorms or apartments thinking we’re done. Sure, those grueling, anticipating homework-filled weeks have come to a close, but once again we’re on the brink of being the newbie; and regardless of your introverted or extroverted personality being the newbie is scary – that drastic of a change is scary. At the beginning of this next chapter lies a slew of emotions: fear, uncertainty, excitement, sadness. Like everyone else who has ever walked across a stage to receive the golden ticket into the real world, we face challenges of how to present ourselves professionally, how to be taken seriously in a world where Gen Y is automatically perceived as entitled and lazy, how to make friends in the workplace.

So what can we do? Lying in bed accompanied by the ever-soothing Ben & Jerry’s Phish food watching 30 Rock reruns is not an option. As our oh-so-encouraging mothers would say, we must seize the day.

How do we do that?

1) Don’t panic. As overwhelming as this process is, it’s part of growing up. Take comfort in the fact that nearly everyone in the world has once felt like this. Get excited and be pumped; you’re about to the plunge into adulthood.

2) Never be afraid to ask. One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned in college is to not be afraid to ask for help – help on assignment, to get a job, crafting a cover letter or resume. Having the courage to admit to yourself that you can’t do this alone is admirable. Ask a coworker to go out to lunch. If you’re overwhelmed, ask a coworker about his/her story.

3) Surround yourself with solid friends. Because let’s be real, we can’t do this on our own. We need uplifting, encouraging loving people by our sides.

4) Get a hobby. It’s easy to drown in stress and anxiety. We need to time relax, so we’re better able to think clearly and perform well in the workplace.

5) Breathe. Every person you’re trying to impress has been in the same place you currently are. Breathing helps us to slow down and lets us keep ourselves in line and thinking straight.

Many of these habits were taken from Lindsey Pollak’s Getting From College to Career. – an excellent resource for recent college graduates.

BLACKFRIDAY

Black Friday

All right, America. I think we have reached a new low. This year Black Friday deals started at 8pm… Thanksgiving day! Last year, the door busters started at 10pm. Does anyone see a problem with this or a growing trend that is only bound to get worse?

Let’s break this down. 8 pm on Thanksgiving evening. Families are at the height of their food comas, barely sipping down their evening coffee. Mothers, fathers, wives, husbands, sisters, brothers, sons and daughters had to face leaving their families earlier than ever to ensure the couponing queens of getting their anticipated deals.

This bugs me. And it should.

Our Christmas crazed society needs to calm down. Seriously and really – sit down, breathe, take a moment to realize what actually matters during the months of November through January (and all year) and calm down.

Stories cycled around the Internet and in the news 72 hours prior to Black Friday spotlighting the die-hard shoppers who were camped out in front of Best Buys throughout the country. They set up tents, PS3s, TVs, and anything else that would entertain them until doors opened Thanksgiving evening.

Really?

Your discounted Samsung Galaxy S III won’t fulfill as you as much as you might think it will. The silky robe you’ve been eyeing for months will be there tomorrow. Put away the Target ads and grab a piece of pumpkin pie.

As we enter and exit college, we millennials have a responsibility. The millennials who are going to become wives and mothers, husbands and fathers, must set a good example for their spouses and children more than ever during these holiday seasons.

People die on Black Friday. People are trampled. Employees are yelled at. And this year was no exception. A YouTube video surfaced from Black Friday morning at a Kansas Victoria Secret showing hundreds of people crowded around the storefront prior to opening. People were nudging and trying to bypass the security guards. All to get some ‘Pink’ sweats. The employee was tearing up threatening to not open the store because ‘it was scary.’

No gift is worth that. Something worth everything is spending the evening with the people who woke up at the crack of dawn in preparation for the meal you just devoured. And admit it, it was the most tender bird you have ever eaten. Offer to take clean-up duty, get your parents dessert, and don’t forget hugs and thank you’s.

Those little things, the little acts of kindness, will make whomever you were going to give that Samsung Galaxy S III much, much happier.

As an inspirational quote found on Pinterest once said…

“Never get tired of doing little things for others; sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts.”

Exercise

Why Exercise Will Lead To Success

Exercising at the crack of dawn. It just sounds horrible. I can already hear the alarm going off for the third time…

The reality of jumping out of bed with plenty of time to get our morning workout in before rushing off to work teaches us discipline. Every time our alarm clocks ring and we get out of bed greeted by our Nikes, and we do not succumb to the pressure of hitting the snooze button, we grow. Whether it is some Pilates, a jog, a walk on the treadmill, or a full- fledged workout at the gym, it’s worth the 7am wake up call.

It teaches us how to manage time. It undoubtedly builds structure in our lives. Having a workout routine helps to keep our heads clear and our lives balanced. If we live our personal lives in a way that nurtures growth and healthy habits, these attitudes and disciplines will carry over into our careers.

Best of all? It helps us to grow as individuals, and the individuals who know how to take care of themselves in their personal lives are the individuals who find not only success but fulfillment as well.

Have a workout routine that works for you? Tips on how to fit a workout into a hectic lifestyle? Let’s hear it!